Definitions for i-message
i-mes·sage

WikipediaRate this definition:0.0 / 0 votes

1. I-message

   In interpersonal communication, an I-message or I-statement is an assertion about the feelings, beliefs, values, etc. of the person speaking, generally expressed as a sentence beginning with the word "I", and is contrasted with a "you-message" or "you-statement", which often begins with the word "you" and focuses on the person spoken to. Thomas Gordon coined the term "I message" in the 1960s while doing play therapy with children. He added the concept to his book for parents, P.E.T.: Parent Effectiveness Training (1970). Not every message that begins with the word "I" is an I-message. I-messages are often used with the intent to be assertive without putting the listener on the defensive by avoiding accusations. They are also used to take ownership for one's feelings rather than implying that they are caused by another person. An example of this would be to say: "I really am getting backed up on my work since I don't have the financial report yet", rather than: "you didn't finish the financial report on time!" (The latter is an example of a "you-statement").I-messages or I-statements can also be used in constructive criticism. For instance, one might say, "I had to read that section of your paper three times before I understood it", rather than, "This section is worded in a really confusing way", or "You need to learn how to word a paper more clearly." The former comment leaves open the possibility that the fault lies with the giver of the criticism. According to the Conflict Resolution Network, I-statements are a dispute resolution conversation opener that can be used to state how one sees things and how one would like things to be, without using inflaming language.

WikidataRate this definition:3.0 / 2 votes

1. I-message

   In interpersonal communication, an I-message or I-statement is an assertion about the feelings, beliefs, values etc. of the person speaking, generally expressed as a sentence beginning with the word "I", and is contrasted with a "you-message" or "you-statement", which often begins with the word "you" and focuses on the person spoken to. Thomas Gordon coined the term "I message" in the 1960s while doing play therapy with children. He added the concept to his book for parents, P.E.T.: Parent Effectiveness Training. I-messages are often used with the intent to be assertive without putting the listener on the defensive. They are also used to take ownership for one's feelings rather than implying that they are caused by another person. An example of this would be to say: "I really am getting backed up on my work since I don't have the financial report yet," rather than: "you didn't finish the financial report on time!". I-messages or I-statements can also be used in constructive criticism.

How to pronounce i-message?

1. Alex

   US English

   David

   US English

   Mark

   US English

   Daniel

   British

   Libby

   British

   Mia

   British

   Karen

   Australian

   Hayley

   Australian

   Natasha

   Australian

   Veena

   Indian

   Priya

   Indian

   Neerja

   Indian

   Zira

   US English

   Oliver

   British

   Wendy

   British

   Fred

   US English

   Tessa

   South African

How to say i-message in sign language?

Numerology

1. Chaldean Numerology

   The numerical value of i-message in Chaldean Numerology is: 7

2. Pythagorean Numerology

   The numerical value of i-message in Pythagorean Numerology is: 6

Examples of i-message in a Sentence

1. Giovanna Gibson:

   I got a text message from my neighbor saying, ‘Are you okay? Your street is on fire,’.

2. Miles Taylor:

   Enough is enough and we need to offer a commonsense coalition for this country and a more unified alternative vision than what we're seeing from the present GOP, which has now become rotten to its core with its persistent attacks on our democracy, so our message is it's time to either reform or repeal the Republican Party.

3. Jack Ciattarelli:

   We’ve sent a message to the entire nation. This is what I love about this state: Every single time it's gone too far off track, the people of this state have pushed, pulled and prodded it right back to where it needs to be.

4. Al Spader:

   He's very genuine, and he's offering to help them out -- and I think he's empowering them, they're actually understanding that message.

5. Carlos Turcios -RRB- Garcia-Lopez:

   F --- you, you stupid b ----. F --- you with your White privilege, not caring about the well-being of others, f --- you, my message contained harsh language — no threats.

References

1. ^ Wikipedia
   https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I-Message
2. ^ Wikidata
   https://www.wikidata.org/w/index.php?search=i-message